Matrimony
A sacred covenant of love between a man and woman, blessed by God and witnessed by the Church. Through Marriage we are united in faithful love and receive grace to support each other through life.
United in the Love of Christ
Matrimony is a sacred covenant between a man and woman, reflecting the unconditional love between Christ and the Church. Through this sacrament, couples receive grace to love each other faithfully and to be united as one in Christ.
In this sacrament, husband and wife are sealed in permanent unity, called to support each other through life's joys and challenges. Marriage is lifelong and exclusive, open to the gift of children, and rooted in the love of God.
At St Saviour's, we joyfully celebrate marriages and provide comprehensive preparation programs to help couples build a strong foundation for their life together, ensuring they understand the sacred nature of their commitment and the graces available to them.
Key Aspects
For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. This mystery is profound
Ephesians 5:31-32
The Sacred Effects of Matrimony
Through Matrimony, God works powerful graces in the souls of husband and wife, transforming them into a living image of Christ's love.

Sacramental Grace
MatrimonyChristian spouses receive special gifts suited to their state in life. This matrimonial grace perfects the couple's love and strengthens their indissoluble unity.
It enables them to help one another attain holiness in their married life and in the welcoming and education of their children.

Unity in Christ
MatrimonyChrist is the source of this grace. He encounters Christian spouses through matrimony, dwelling with them, granting them strength to carry their crosses.
He enables them to love one another with supernatural, tender, and fruitful love, and gives them the ability to reconcile after failures and to forgive one another.

Family Foundation
MatrimonyMarriage is ordered to the procreation and education of children, in whom it finds its crowning glory.
Conjugal fruitfulness extends beyond physical parenthood to embrace the moral, spiritual, and supernatural life that parents transmit through the education of their children.

The Domestic Church
MatrimonyThe Christian family is rightly called the Ecclesia domestica, a church in miniature. Within the home, parents are the first heralds of the faith, nurturing each child's vocation by word and example.
The family becomes the first school of Christian life and a school for human enrichment, where all learn perseverance, the joy of work, fraternal love, generous forgiveness, and above all, divine worship through prayer and self-offering.

Mutual Sanctification
MatrimonyConjugal love demands inviolable fidelity as a consequence of the mutual self-gift between husband and wife. Love seeks to be definitive; it cannot be an arrangement until further notice.
This fidelity is grounded in God's own covenant faithfulness and in Christ's commitment to his Church.

Permanent Bond
MatrimonyFrom a valid marriage arises a bond between the spouses which by its very nature is perpetual and exclusive.
Established by God himself, this bond cannot be dissolved when concluded and consummated between baptised persons. The Church has no authority to contravene this divine arrangement.
Requirements for Marriage Preparation
Whether preparing for a Catholic wedding or a mixed marriage, here's what you need to know to begin your journey.
Catholic Couples
For couples where both parties are Catholic
Both parties baptised Catholic
Free to marry in the Church
Complete Pre-Cana preparation program
Six months advance notice preferred
Recent baptismal and confirmation certificates
Mixed Marriages
For couples where one party is Catholic
One party must be Catholic
Dispensation required from Bishop
Catholic party promises to raise children Catholic
Non-Catholic party informed of promises
Additional preparation may be required
Documentation Needed
Required documents for marriage preparation
Recent baptismal certificates
Confirmation certificates
Civil marriage license
Proof of freedom to marry
Pre-nuptial investigation forms
Begin Your Journey Together
Ready to take the next step? Contact us to begin your marriage preparation or to schedule your wedding ceremony. We're here to guide you through this sacred journey.
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